Normally, Us people we see failing as defeat, and it's never easy to accept defeat, sa Mobile Legends nga kahit obvious na na talo yung team mo, ipaglalaban mo padin eh, kasi walang taong gusto matalo, lahat tayo we wanted a life na ipagmamalaki natin. But what if God allowed us to fail because He wants us to learn from it, what if he wants us to realize that we can't force things to happen, that we can do nothing without Him, and that He wants us to understand His sovereignity. What if He is just preparing us for a greater purpose or maybe He allowed it to bring us closer to where we are suppose to be. Whatever the reason is, One thing is for sure, GOD NEVER FAILS. ❤
Oftentimes, when we fail or we do bad decisions we blame ourselves for it, we hate ourself for allowing that to happen, but we are not seeing failure into other perspective, that it thought us valuable lesson that made us who are we today, Me, I can say that your fingers are not enough to count those dissapointments, failures and mistakes that i made, but each and every failures that i've experienced, every mistakes that i've done, and every dissapointments i've encountered, there's a replacement, there is something beautiful that happened out of those failures.,which made me realize that maybe we have to gone through the worst to appreciate the bright side of life, Back then, I'm too confident with my own strength and knowledge i thought i can do everything on my own, i feel like i know everything, I did'nt ask for God's guidance all i know is i want to study in my dream University which is PUP so i took up PUPCET, but i fail i didn't pass the exam, ofcourse i felt dissapointed. But failing to that exam leads to me to AIE College where i became so happy, I met friends who turned to be a family to me, friends who bring me closer to God, people who helped me bigtime with some issues inside of me. If i pass that exam, i don't know what kind of people i met in that school.
Everytime i remembered this, it reminded me that God's Grace is sufficient despite of my failures. It teaches me that it's okay to fail but never stay in your failing ground, you have to grow.
I'm not saying here that it's nice to fail because you're learning from it, No! What im trying to say is that you can't change the fact that you fail, that you made a mistake, you can do nothing about it BUT why won't you try to focus on the lessons that it gave you instead of the failure itself, that way you can see the gains that you get out of it., and later on, you will realize how strong you are to try, and accept defeat.
In my 24 years (almost) here in this temporary world is never easy, and i can say that FAILURE, Dissapointments and mistakes are part of life, the only way you can avoid these is by doing absolutely nothing. So i guess failing is pre requisite for Growth.
There is this time in my life where i overthink "what if i do it anyways" "what if i pursue this job or this person" what if i pushed myself to my limits" those are the words that keep on coming in my mind, and i cant help it., i feel like i want to give up, but i got through it, God made me see the beauty of acceptance, that that is how life works.
If it's not for you, accept it.
Here's the catch you can't force someone to fell inlove with you, even if you're the most beautiful and succesful woman in the world, if that person is not for you, you can't have him, same thing in life if you want something that is not meant for you, even if you try many times, you will just fail. So, instead of relying on our own knowledge why don't we surrender our future and have faith to God? Know that He is in control of everything, He will not leave you nor forsake you, He is too wise to be mistaken, He has plan for you.
Failing is not always a defeat, sometimes it's a detour of God's greater purpose for your life. Be brave to try again if you fail, i know courage is not something that you pull out of nowhere, but make sure that you know who you call in times of weakness, ask Him for strength and wisdom that you need in every step that you will take.
Im not here to give you flowery encouragements, but im here to tell you the truth that God is in Control of everything, He will make the impossible possible. We can't make it? Then God can, pray and wait expectantly. Believe that you can be more, You are more than your failure. Don't doubt yourself just because you fail the first time you try it. At the end of the day, we will be glad that we trust the truth instead of hearing those giants that telling us lies. More than the lessons and learnings, the blessing behind our failures is that we realized that we can't make it on our own, that we need God in every single step that we take. I don't know about you, but knowing that my God is in control of everything, i will be fearless to face the reality that wether i like it or not i will dissapoint and fail myself, but my God won't bring me down. He is faithful, and theres nothing too much for Him. You did not fail for nothing because it made you who you are today. ❤
